Can get dates from daygame but continues to fail at sexualising them

excentrik-art · 2020-02-10T12:35:38+00:00

First, you should get intimate with silence. Take into consideration that silence is a tool. Keep light smirk, firm eye contact. Use it to build pressure, when you plan to close.

Talk, talk, then pause, eye contact, devil smile - look into her eyes as you were studying a work of art (not boobs/body check). Don't waver. She will feel the tension, start to question your staring. Don't jump on this bait to break your resolve. Be congruent, hold your answer few seconds after she has stopped talking. Don't start explaining yourself, be prepared.

If she don't care about the silence, you failed to create interest/rapport beforehand.

Why are you staring at me like this?... I don't like it. (I am not sure yet if I like it) - .......

Some possible answers:

Humor. Fun relieves pressure and tension. Great for interest/rapport/charisma/value, worst for attraction/sexual tension/closing
Because you are so beautiful ... etc. - maybe could ever work on under-valuated girls if you continue with devaluation, then roller-coaster her emotions to turn her on. Most girls will get really angry because they like the tension, and to relief the tension by compliment she hears every day is massive letdown
Why do you think? - thin line because you can appear to be stalling or insecure to experienced girls. Usually works well on smart introverted girls. Puts more pressure on her, she goes into - I don't know what to say - mode, don't force her to think, guide her instead, try below.
Mild erotic - I am thinking about you. You seem _____ (open, closed, distant, shy...) on the surface, but deep down, I think you sometimes just want to _____ (relax, open yourself, connect more closely, go on adventure ...). Some people could say bad things about it, or even judge you for it. But I think its great to fulfill your fantasies. Tell me about your fantasies. - Go on light sexual topics, use push-pull. If she opens up, go silent again and continue bellow.
Strong erotic - I am imagining how you look like when you are having an orgasm - if you talked openly sexually before, you can pull it no problem. Unless she is already super horny and easy, this will make her shit test you. Counter with - Wow, you think you deserve an orgasm from me? Bold. I like that. But I am not that easy. - then you change subject, ask her - So how are you enjoying your night? - Its terrible, you are terrible! - And .. you .. f\cking .. love it.* Kiss, go for close
For heavily Esoteric girl you can go all bullshit: Your chakras all so misaligned, do you practice any equilibristic exercises? - ..blah blah.. - Well its not working. I fell your auras are really struggling to stay bright. My guru Kahaila taught me this native khaorshan meditation that might help, if you allow me to. - Use color therapy hypnotic with happy/sad memories. Suggest this is not working to its full potential because of blocked energy paths. Go to place where she feels most comfortable and safe (her place). For best energy transfer both needs to be naked (try towel, then in the middle ask - do you trust me? if yes, remove) and you must make full hand contact. Keep it "professional". Ritual must be ended with mutual releasing pressure via orgasm.

If she responds with - Do you think about fucking me? - She thinks about fucking. But its also an easy-to-miss shit test. Saying Yes in a calm manner, without breaking eye contact is absolutely fine. If she agrees, you better have good logistics, this should move fast. But majority will do last minute resistance, saying yes and then no at latest possible moment. You can only remain calm, and show her its no problem. Don't be happy or sad, be confident and lead the situation. Make her relaxed, but not too relaxed. Some use alcohol, personally I don't like drunk girls. Be understanding - Hey its okay, I understand you, some people are jerks who just judge people. But you and I are not like that, we see the world as it is and like to enjoy ourselves. I don't judge you. And you don't judge me too, right? (slightly insecurely, but calmly, no pressure!) I know you don't . We are just two beautiful people trying to enjoy these moments ... Kiss, close.

Good silent stare posture:

Lean back on chair - look relaxed, but confident
Hand on face, slow, distant stroke - deep thoughts + stroking is pacifying
Head tilted down or slightly side-down, devil smile
Firm eye contact, focus between eyes
Appear calm but tempted
Pro-Tip: Notice her breathing. Match her breathing tempo.

*Important notice*

Practice in mirror, what you want see in mirror is playfully erotic, emanating lust. Not - I wanna f*ck. What you feel, they feel. If you will be nervous, they will be nervous, and it will came out as stalling, insecurity. Practice silent stare on friends (even male), when asked why do you stare, say the truth. Friend will understand, and help.

For more info, PM. I will sometime create my own content, I have some experience, and I want to share it.

thedudesmashes · 2020-02-10T01:23:19+00:00

Know your enemy.

Watch some Lana Del Rey music videos and try to see what's sexual and suggestive about her nature, women eat her music up because she speaks that language. Learn it and implement little segments into your personality and conversation via trial and error. Find what works for you.

pureresilience11 · 2020-02-10T02:18:02+00:00

dates from daygame are usually more slower. expect light physicality on date 1, and fucking by date 3 or so, could take longer. it's not like online where the girls are very primed and eager to fuck you on the first or second meet

theselfreliantman · 2020-02-10T01:12:46+00:00

Sounds like an issue of intent.

You may be getting phone numbers but under what pretense? Maybe your 'dates' the girls don't see as such.

Try verbalizing your intents when you approach and see if your results change at all. Are you stopping them and asking for directions? Or are you saying WOW YOU'RE FUCKIN SEXY, what's your name.

The latter is NOT the most effective way to pick up girls on the street of course lol, but it would be an interesting exercise for you as it'd force your hand in terms of sexual intent.

Basically, if the girl feels your sexual intent when you meet her, and still meets up with you. Then you're on a date and escalation shouldn't be an issue for you.

As for 'strategies' and conversational threads. Ask her about previous dates/boyfriends in a playful way (not to get into serious relationships). You can ask "whats your worst first date story?" To get into a thread on dating/casual stuff. THen you could share a date story of your own that ended in a sexual adventure.

Sounds like overall you're going to want to do a lot more internal work as to why you think touching a woman that likes you (and is on a date with you) is disrespectful.

Title	Can get dates from daygame but continues to fail at sexualising them
Author	ALPHACHAD12
Upvotes	5
Comments	22
Date	February 10, 2020 12:48 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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