...and your date responds positively? So the thing is I go clubbing or bars a lot and always hangout in the same 4-5 spots as there are only a few decent spots in my city despite being a pretty large city. So when I go there with a date I always see people and socialise and whatnot which dates so far didn’t mind.

But the thing is few of my dates respond very positively to guys hitting her. Which hits my confidence. Don’t get me wrong I see myself as a high value man(sorry if it’s sounds cringy.) but it’s not a pretty picture. Recently a girl I was really into did that as well.

I would never chase e relationship with a girl who shamelessly flirts with other guys so please don’t start with “you’re better than this bro run!!” I know I can run and I know she’s not worth it but sometimes you just wanna bang a solid 8 ya know?

I’ve been in this situation surprising amount of times and really don’t know what to do. So r/seduction what do you say?