Women are human. They are not professional daters and they make mistakes just like you and me. Being human yourself is ok, and one women can relate to.

A lot of the community is about strategy, as if the woman is a challenge or even an opponent. Even I get caught up in it, trying to craft the perfect text and strategize the perfect date. But in my experience, the more natural and less strategic the action is, the better it comes across. Girls who go on dates with you are rooting for you to succeed. Otherwise they wouldn't agree to go on a date with you. So whether it is dating, texting, or being in a relationship, trust your instinct and be aware that she is just as scared and insecure as you are.