What’s about Body Language?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-10T11:33:32+00:00

Your body language reflects how you feel about yourself.

If you feel like you are bothering women, or that what you are doing is unnatural, weird, forced or creepy, then your body language will reflect that to women and they will get off all the wrong vibes, just by looking at you in a couple of seconds and will be turned off or uncomfortable quite quickly.

So it matters greatly, however faking body language is usually a bad idea as you can come across as fake very easily. That’s because the root of the problem is how you feel about yourself when approaching girls.

If you feel bad then, your body language will betray you even if you try to control it to appear confident.

Body language is important it says a lot about who you are, it says more than what you are verbally saying.

Liberaler · 2022-03-10T10:05:09+00:00

Good body language does not need much. Upright and relaxed posture, not fidgeting. Trying to control one's body language is often counter productive because you can't get the micro expressions right and will become incongruent.

A shy guy with some faked "alpha" moves will just come across as ridiculous. Even if he would get it right, he would not be able to live up to what he had implied. If you habitually step out of your comfort zone your body language will automatically adapt to your new self.

2dice1hand · 2022-03-10T10:07:12+00:00

The self is always shining through So you can be aware of what might be considered negative body language and then become cognizant in the moment of you doing it and stop it and make the proper adjustment but I feel there are more important things you could put your focus into during an interaction that would yield more dynamic results such as being fully present in the moment and focusing on the other person and less on yourself and how your coming across just that intent alone will make a more magnetizing vibe

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-10T10:18:52+00:00

Body language matters a great deal, but it is almost always a reflection of how you feel. If you feel insecure and try to show confident body language it can usually come across as fake and women can usually spot faking easily. So focus first and foremost on addressing how you feel

azizbadaasjsj · 2022-03-10T10:06:50+00:00

doesn't exist , it's just one of plenty of things said by dating coaches who want your money.

they simply can't mention new things to differentiate , so they mention body language .

who do you think you're facing ? a billionaire who's going to pay you millions of dollars to do businesses? are you teaching nuclear weapon science? no! you're just out there to fuck . body language matters zero .

Title	What’s about Body Language?
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Date	March 10, 2022 9:40 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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