What’s good text game?

hunterpua · 2019-02-09T18:59:49+00:00

In all my years in the seduction community, I haven't found any resource dedicated purely to text game wherein they cover "everything".

99% of resources on text game are simply on how to use texting to get dates.

1% or even less are legit resources that can teach you how to seduce over text. That is, make a girl so horny with text messages so that she either begs to fuck you or she comes over to your place in the middle of the night to fuck your brains out.

However, I have realized that if you understand the underlying structure and mechanisms behind game then you can pretty much translate it to any form of communication.

The first basic thing you need to understand is that one of the biggest factors that causes lasting attraction (that dwarfs being an alpha male or having a good body or being good looking) is investment.

Think of everything you hold dear in your life, you have invested in it or continue to invest in it in some form.

Investment doesn't just come in the form of money, it can come in the form of time, effort, emotion, sacrifice, maintenance or upkeep, etc.

So if you can just get a girl to invest in you through text then you can keep, grow, and maintain her attraction for you.

One of the best ways to do that is by getting her to open up, to share things to you that she shares with very little or no other person.

This is investment because the more she opens up, the more vulnerable she makes herself to you.

You know, words can hurt and they can hurt a lot.

I'm not talking about triggering some weak-minded people.

I'm talking about hitting the right spot in a person's psyche.

When she opens up about her dreams, ambitions, deepest insecurities, childhood traumas, deepest desires then she also tells you exactly what you can attack if you wanted to really hurt her emotionally.

So when she opens up to you its a huge investment because she showing you a large amount of trust.

So how do you get her to do that?

Here's how.

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The other aspect that you would need if you're away from a girl for long periods of time is an ability to sexually escalate.

After all, a deep connection without any sexuality is basically a friendship.

And if you want her to be ready for you and really crave for you then being able to turn her on through the phone is essential.

I've had experiences where I match with girls on dating apps from different cities on the day that I'm leaving that city but instead of thinking it was too little too late, I still message them.

What I've been able to experience because of that is months where I'm just texting a girl and getting her to have very intense masturbation sessions just imagining me fucking her.

So I'm literally just texting, calling, or video chatting a girl for months, we don't see each other in person for that entire period.

But guess what happens when I finally visit her city again.

Often times what happens is that I don't need to get a hotel or Airbnb anymore because the girl lets me stay at her place and usually the second I get in her door she jumps me and finally releases months of pent up sexual frustration.

This should give you an idea of how to do that.

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ntipz011 · 2019-02-09T19:26:03+00:00

Yeah have her invest emotionnally and logically into you if you want to keep her over a long distance.

I doubt you can "trigger the right signals" to get her ready for sex through text only. I might be lacking knowledge.

I kept a girl waiting for me (unintentionally somehow) for 6 months because we had a good "story" together before she had to move out for the semester. Todd talks about that with the terms "build a strong narrative together".
I was the kind of guy she could fall in love with.

I was really her type, I was having her seeking for attention, I had her invest in me, I told her to not fall in love with me because I'm a bad boy and right after ask her to be my girlfriend with my most serious look just to laugh it off when she asks me if I was serious (spike her love emotions hard) and I taught her how to make me happy in the relationship. Then she left the city, add some sexy selfies along the way, push pull, warm and cold interactions and hyping so hard the moment we'd meet again.

In the end she did fall in love with me, too much hype to resist. And when we met again after 6 months of teasing it was awkward because we hyped the thing so much that it couldn't meet the expectations and was to be disappointing anyway. Anyway, if you wanna do that, use some of the ideas in the above paragraph I guess.

WIA20XX · 2019-02-09T18:44:06+00:00

Long distance and long time between meets doesn't work.

Use social media instead.

Title	What’s good text game?
Author	zenzebra101
Upvotes	10
Comments	6
Date	February 9, 2019 6:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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