Hello all you legends!

What's my next move?

I've (40m) have been on 3 dates with a Colombian woman (38). We communicated early on and established that a serious relationship was off the cards. All 3 dates have gone well. She's generous with kisses mid date, calls me handsome and touches my face and beard - definitely established attraction but beyond kissing, it hasn't gone any further. I get no sexual energy from her at all and it wouldn't suprise me if she was a virgin (she isn't).

I'm guessing this is what it feels like to be a woman dealing with a nice guy.

Anyway, I could probably arrange a fourth date at my place that would see things take a big leap forward physically. But here is the issue I'm facing - I don't really wanna.

So, don't bother, right? Well, what if her sexual side is about to be unleashed and I'm about to be proven spectacularly wrong about the preconceived notions I have of her? Maybe the spark I'm looking for could be revealed this Friday night.

She could be a total freak that's playing it cool. Or, she's just a bit too plain and nice and I should move on. So, what's my next move? I could take it or leave it if I'm being honest.

Any comments or suggestions would be most welcome. Thanks heaps, gentlemen!