How did you actually improve your text game on apps?

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-07-21T12:14:24+00:00

I will give you one single rule which u have to follow.

Threat women you match as equals. Simple as that.

Don’t try to impress. Don’t try to win the over. Don’t be afraid to loose the match. Don’t do any of that.

Have your standards. And make sure she qualifies it.

By quality I don’t mean that is enough for her to be pretty.

Qualify her character. Does she understand dark humour? Does she understand references you make? Does she understand your multi layered hidden meanings? Does her IQ meets your standards?

That’s how you will know if she gets you, and you will have a great time with her.

And if she does then don’t beat the bush and ask her out.

Simoane_Said · 2025-07-21T13:01:29+00:00

People try to think there’s a magic text formula, there’s not.

If her number 1 pick has her on the back burner then she’ll think “gee, the 6 pack doctor with abs hasn’t responded this week, and this guy asked me, and he doesn’t seem crazy, and he will pay for food”

The bottom line is a basic text will get a response if she feels you have enough perceived value and your the best current option

Other than not asking how’s your day, wyd, just try to text her like she’s going to be your girlfriend but it needs to lead up to a date, meaning just figure out logistics, what she likes to eat / do, then drop a date idea. Do that over 2 days and 10 exchanges then lead into (when all are you free coming up? Let’s grab some blah)

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-07-21T18:32:53+00:00

I quit using apps and found much greater dating success. Texting is just not a good medium for building attraction.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2025-07-21T18:48:23+00:00

Another commenter mentioned this, but don’t try to impress her, look at her as your equal. Be yourself unapologetically. Trying to be something you’re not eventually backfires. Just don’t be too needy

This concept applies when you’re on the actual date. The more you try to impress, the less success you’ll have

Altokation · 2025-07-21T12:16:17+00:00

I used to be ASS at texting, but here some things that really helped me:

Reflect and review your text messages. See what works and what doesn't
Experiment with texting. I sometimes send some crazy texts out ("We would definitely have cute babies") and they don't land, and sometimes they do. You gotta test it out. Also the reverse, I also sometimes text really dry like "thanks." just to see what kind of reaction I get.

Seems like you're not taking enough risks, what kind of texts are you generally texting?

LimbBisquet · 2025-07-21T12:25:11+00:00

Stop trying so hard to

PeterLamb87 · 2025-07-21T21:40:12+00:00

The biggest improvement of text game is accepting text game is the chupacabra of dating, it doesnt exist, you aint going to seduce a woman over the phone. I tried for years to improve my "text game", it never really mattered. Text "game" runs on a set or principles:

-Its a mean to an end, to get the women in front of you, nothing more. This means convos should be as short as you need to get a women to date: This might be a couple of messages on the dating app or a bit longer if you pick a girl IG or phone during cold approach. This also means any attempt from the girls POV to drag the conversation is a no, and that chick should be dumped, why? Because dating apps are full of tirekicking attention addicts and some women IRL might give you their number and chat a bit because they are bored, found you funny, etc (but they never truly liked you and will never date you).

-Always keep self respect at maximum, so never beg, double text, send dick picks or whatever cringe people do.

BumblebeeHuman5699 · 2025-07-21T15:44:09+00:00

Chatgpt, fuck it.

Seiiiiiii · 2025-07-21T12:45:04+00:00

Make sure you have a good profile first. Then two steps: 1) Unpredictable messages to contrast with the boring texts she is usually getting.

2) Tone it down to show your real self and create trust.

Then you qualify and close

Vox_Dissidens · 2025-07-22T01:38:41+00:00

Always assume positive intent and playfully misinterpret things in a positive way. Absolutely game-changing.

Title	How did you actually improve your text game on apps?
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Date	July 21, 2025 11:36 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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