Where to get feedback and suggestions on texting

Jironasaurus · 2025-07-29T04:21:00+00:00

You can actually join the WhatsApp group some of us are on if you need feedback. We're all happy to help, I'm sure.

LimbBisquet · 2025-07-29T20:36:05+00:00

Think about frameworks and not specific lines. For example:

Most men think that women have tons of options and as such they have to say the right thing, be funny, engaging, not too pushy, put not let it go on for too long; etc. As a result, most men walk around on eggshells and think one wrong word means the end of their chances of getting pussy.

You have to flip this mentality on its head. Assume for a moment that you are an extremely hot guy who has 10 matches reaching out to him to set up dates. They are all willing. They are all hot. So you matched with this girl. If you were that guy, how would you think and behave?

Would you think “man, what funny line can I use to make her laugh and make her interested in me”. Would you think “I have to come up with a witty opener so I get her attention”, or “oh, I have to spend an hour thinking about how to respond to her question because if I say the wrong thing, I will never get laid with her.”

Remember, that guy had 10 other gorgeous girls waiting to go out with him. Or do you think he is more likely to think “Okay, let me give this one a chance and see if she might be someone I want to spend time with. BUT…if she says something g stupid, bitchy or is being difficult, she is gone…I got enough bitches to go out with.”

If the latter is your mentality, how will you behave and communicate? Will you try too hard? Will you put in a lot of effort? Will you tolerate any BS from her? Or will you put on minimal effort until you feel she is returning the same amount of effort as you? Or will you cut her off at the first sign of being difficult?

Get it?

Title	Where to get feedback and suggestions on texting
Author	Secure-Outcome8687
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	July 29, 2025 3:50 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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