I did a quick list to keep my mind fresh before approaching a girl.

-Slow down, listen, let her finish, slow deep tone, silent moments -Posture: straight back, relaxed shoulders, feet pointing her, no cross arms -Look for opportunities to flirt and make her laugh after she’s done saying something. -avoid using the word “oh” -Get touchy, beginning with shoulder touch. Find an excuse to touch her (necklace, bracelet)

Very basic stuff, but it helps me stay relaxed and comfortable and avoid forgetting things.

What’s in your list?