What's wrong with me?

joshecf · 2014-11-21T17:02:28+00:00

First off, I have backpacked a lot and while it is easy-ish to hook up the circumstances have to be pretty right so don't stress out about finding someone.

Don't worry about not performing well. Would you rather not perform well with someone you will likely not see again or with someone that you might see again and be constantly reminded? Relax and if it doesn't go well then you both go your separate ways.

Dancing is tough. I love dancing and I think I am alright at it but I just simply can't dance with most girls. There are very few where the dancing goes really well even if we have good chemistry. I would try to match how she is dancing first and then try to pull the girl close while mimicking her moves. if you have a good rhythm ping though make her go to your dancing. If that doesn't work then just dance with her but doing your own thing and once in a while hold her waist or do some touch to show her that you do want to get more physical.

Anyways mostly relax and have fun. Especially traveling it just tends to happen and it is great when it does.

txroller · 2014-11-21T16:42:13+00:00

are you really worried about performance issues? do you have nay experience to show that it might be a valid reason to worry?

baguette180 · 2014-11-21T18:47:57+00:00

You can like angle your hips to make it work. And iv seen pornstars with dicks that make hooks and it does not seem to slow them down. Also I'd imagen your dick going up would apply more preshure to he g spot to that should be a good thing.

You should re frame everything in you mind to it being funny then you should not be worried.

Like everything about life is funny. Like Australia was far as shit away from England so they just decided to send their criminals there then I grew into a wealth country then we invente airplans and you flue there to get layed, and it only took like 15 hr insted of sailing there for 4 mounths.

Life is a funny thing.

RSDTyler talks about that a bit. I spent like 40 min trying to find an example for you but I could not. He just mentions stuff like that in lots of his vids.

incepticidery · 2014-11-21T21:18:07+00:00

Just remember that like everything else sex takes practice. Most people arent good at sex there first time so dont stress about it too much.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-11-21T22:03:38+00:00

In the last few weeks I had two great opportunities, but I'm actually scared of sex. I'm worried about underperforming, especially if it's a girl I'll only fuck one time and also I'm worried, because I don't know if my dick will be oversensitive (foreskin) and because my erection angle is not very flexible (pointing upwards can't bend it down to 90 degrees at all), so I'm worried about not being able to fuck her properly. ( just missionary and some variation of cowgirl comes to mind)

You can have all the worries in the world if you want. But you will never know until you try. Just go for it and silence your mind.

zomgitsduke · 2014-11-22T16:19:58+00:00

You're backpacking and probably will never meet these women again. Who cares if you disappoint?

wufoo2 · 2014-11-21T18:32:18+00:00

Your glans will only be oversensitive if you clean it too aggressively. At least that's been my experience.

Title	What's wrong with me?
Author	Hegedagen
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	November 21, 2014 4:26 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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