What's your ultimate motivation?

paki123 · 2013-07-02T05:37:29+00:00

I want to be better than I was yesterday, and almost everyday I do something that helps accomplish that. I read a bit more of a book, or I did my minimum hour of basketball training or lifting, or I (hopefully) approached some girls to improve my AAs, etc. I do something everyday because I'm not satisfied with who I am. That being said, I don't hate who I am. But I know I can grow each and every day.

The problem a lot of people have with this mentality is that their is no end goal in the long run, and they have a point. I'm not looking that far ahead to be honest. I try to take things one step at a time, or I guess being present.

Ryu6912 · 2013-07-02T06:50:59+00:00

After going through highschool with no girlfriend despite many attempts I was fed up with my shitty social skills. Tired of fucking up girls I could of had but was too needy. I feel disgusted how they must of felt, a cool guy but all the wrong attitude. That's what got me into it and I swear I'll never be needy and desperate like that again. And I want the one girl I couldn't have, but that's on the back burner for now obviously because abundance mentality OP.

IPlayUkulele · 2013-07-02T04:29:12+00:00

On a larger scale, I'm a music major, and a lot of my life will depend on how well I network and how much people like me. Seddit has helped me so much in my day-to-day interactions with everyone.

On a daily basis, I guess I never really stop trying to get better. I don't have a time where I game, and then a time where I don't. For example, I was at Walmart about an hour ago and the line was backed up. While waiting, I had a conversation with the lady behind me to pass time, while everyone else was just standing in silence. Boring! Talk to everyone and always be applying the things you learn! Not just because you want to get laid or whatever, but because it will make your life interesting.

I don't know if that really answered your question, but it's how I keep doing what I do.

windowtothesoul · 2013-07-02T04:30:30+00:00

People aren't inherently anyone. The genius had to work to be smart, the athlete wasn't born with muscles, and the PUA made himself who he is. We all make ourselves who we are, and every single little choice shapes who we our, our perception of others, how others perceive us, and our perception of ourselves. We can choose to be who we want to be or we can choose to be who we don't - but either way it is a choice.

I feel like I've told myself that or something similar to many times now that it has become second nature. When second guessing anything think about what would happen if you didn't and ask 'am I okay with that'. More than not I found myself with no excuses left and thus propelled to take action.

2013-07-02T17:45:01+00:00

Not that i'm cured of anxiety/a social person in the slightest (still have difficulties with strangers) but my motivation was to stop being the guy that people laughed at/pitied/didn't want to be near. To stop being the guy with social communication issues who was seen as a bit odd at best and disturbing at worst.

It dawned on me as a fat nervous fuck of a 17 year old that I'd have to make changes to my life or i'd just be thrown to the side, however I wrongly started by making superficial changes (i.e. losing a whole bunch of weight) and still didn't feel like I belonged in any social groups, no matter what they were.

So after learning that harsh lesson I started to work on my mind and social skills, which to date hasn't taken me that much further but I am still trying. I feel like now i'm ready to take life on.

What motivates me the most is the fact that I should be living and taking advantage of being young and doing things like learning a skill outside of my field of study, keeping fit and healthy and ultimately happy, doing things that are exhilarating like skydiving, having varied hobbies which I am passionate about, having mind blowing sex with beautiful younger girls i've just met or banging a 9/10 MILF I see one day, being able to hold down a part time job and be social with my co-workers, enjoying experiences like gigs, sporting events and the likes without feelings of apprehension beforehand, being able to speak publicly and confidently and so on and so forth...

...Instead of all of this I have wasted some of my best years trapped in a cage of self doubt and worthlessness, feeling depressed and jacking off everyday to the point that even the hottest girls just seemed irritating to me and nothing more. That in a nutshell is why I want to/have started to do things like this, its going to be a journey but one I think is worth taking.

IceCream_Social · 2013-07-04T16:14:46+00:00

I pissed away the first two years of my college career smoking pot, drinking beer, and playing games. By the end of my sophmore year I had madeout with two girls in my entire college career, I had no professional ambitions and all in all just led a boring life.

I kept getting all nostaligc about High School and just decided to take my life back. I moved into a huge house with five other active dudes, started working out, volunteered at a local music festival, and just started going out and doing things more. I guess I just want more excitement out of life and pickup was the medium that helped me realize/achieve it.

Title	What's your ultimate motivation?
Author	theoneandonlytim
Upvotes	13
Comments	6
Date	July 2, 2013 4:08 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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