I’m sure this has been covered before, just wanted to share something that has become obvious to me recently that would have made my life easier years ago. I really don’t know how it took me so long to figure this out. Maybe some of you guys interpret differently but thought it was worth starting a conversation on.

Over the years almost every time I’ve pulled a girl out of a bar back to my place or had sex on the first date, the girl gives me a hard time and starts implying in a seemingly disapproving manner that I must do this with a lot of girls. The nice guy inside of me would often slip and give a reaction to this trying to convince her that I’m not that guy... that’s where you fuck up... When a chick does this she IS NOT actually worried about you being a man whore... in fact, she wants your actions to imply that you are in fact very good with women. The thing is, in that moment she is feeling promiscuous... she’s portraying the image of a ladies man on to you not because you’ve fooled her into thinking that you’re a regular James Bond, but because if you are good at seducing women, then it’s not her fault she ended up in your bed now is it?? If you’re just some desperate dude and you make that shit painfully obvious, she’s going to know and feel slutty... maybe give in in the moment but push you out of memory the next day. Understanding this has helped my game and ability to close immensely.

Curious how others might view and handle those situations, any takers?? Any favorite lines/come backs for when she asks you if you do this often??