When should i date her?

lawdandskimmy · 2016-08-28T17:14:06+00:00

No, you should not hesitate and do it ASAP. Now go and do it or otherwise you will end up forever alone. It's your choice whether the direction of your life is going to be upwards or downwards from this single moment now. If you do ask her out now, it will go up, but you will be doomed if you don't. Remember the important part is to ask her out and the results are unimportant (such as her rejecting or accepting). First one will get you a long term advantage while the second one is just something you care about only for the next few upcoming weeks.

stevethesupersanchez · 2016-08-28T18:44:25+00:00

The worst thing she can say is no. Plenty of fish dude.

JefemanG · 2016-08-28T18:59:24+00:00

2 things.

Fake it till you make it.
Do it soon. Girls usually decide within the first meeting if they'd date you or not. Factors can change, but generally speaking, the sooner the better.

Worse case scenario, she says no, and that's that.

Chodulambu · 2016-08-28T17:15:21+00:00

Might be a gamble. Could be friendzoned.

MindsEvolve · 2016-08-29T11:05:50+00:00

I used to be focused on one girl at a time. I would get so nervous that liking someone would actually be a mostly painful experience for me. As I got better in the dating realm of my life, I started realizing one of the most important lessons - never put all of your eggs into one basket until you are in a negotiated exclusive relationship. Pursuing women should not be like the movies - pain and heartbreak over one girl at a time. Thanks a lot movies. It should be more like a sales pipeline - with a big dose of self improvement at every stop. Start becoming a social leader, get on the apps, and explore all avenues of dating. Get 5 numbers a week and THEN go back and see how you feel about your crush.

Best of luck,

Evan Magor - Honest Dating Coach - Anyone who wants an awesome dating life can schedule a FREE 30-minute advice session through skype with me here: https://calendly.com/evanmagor/

Title	When should i date her?
Author	sanketvaria29
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	August 28, 2016 4:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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