When to be exclusive

PuroPincheGains · 2018-09-13T09:18:08+00:00

Alright OP, ignore the clowns down there and listen up.

It's best to let her ask. Now, either way is fine. You can ask her to be your girlfriend and still be the fucking big dick Don Juan player that you are. It's not wrong to want something, and then make appropriate moves to make it happen. However, at the end of the day, asking her is a needy behavior.

Worst case, she's only about 70% sure about you, but she definitely wants to date a little longer, so she says yes. Who knows how long it'll take for her to be all in, or instead decide to leave you if she never gets there? If she asks you out, you know she's into you. You can go into your relationship head up high swinging your dick around knowing that this girl is 100% about you. She went out of her way, against societal norms (according to rom coms and pop songs) to ask you out. That's real dude.

You're already enjoying yourself, and getting what you want from the relationship. Being in a long term committed relationship isn't a level up where you get new powers. A relationship is a journey and all the fun shit happens in the middle, not the end! There's no rush, and if a girl really likes you, she's not going to let you get away just because you haven't asked her out. Honestly, it'll probably make her like you more. That's just human nature. And think about it, do you want to be the guy who gets girls, or Don Juan, whom girls want to get. The second man has a better time man, and you've already laid the framework here to make it happen.

I say, wait a 1-2 months. She'll probably ask you out by then, and when you say yes, she'll feel like she scored a huge catch. If she doesn't ask by then, then ask her. Maybe she's running game on you. Maybe she really doesn't want anything too serious. Either way, that'll be a good time to find, after you take some time to enjoy the present.

Alex_O7 · 2018-09-13T14:04:36+00:00

You already do stuff in bf/gf style, so why bother asking? I mean, she is actually your gf for what you do together. At least you can introduce her to your parents sobit it is a little more "official" or maybe just say to her something like "now that you are my gf... " and complete the sentence with whatever you want, amd then let's see what is her reaction to this.

Anyway this is a lot out of topic here, stuff like this are for r/relationship (or whatever it is call).

mr_stylo · 2018-09-13T15:58:55+00:00

I love this post , thank you! You're right though man I should be present in the time I've spent with her and I have, but to let things play out! It's just I've never had the girl ask for things to be official it's usually me asking either too soon or too late. But I think I'll wait a month or ask on that trip unless she beats me to it. Will definitely keep you updated

mr_stylo · 2018-09-13T16:00:28+00:00

Was thinking about this recently without the label we basically are together. It's obviously the label that gives its security I guess. But yeah I posted here because I wanted some feedback from this subreddit

2018-09-13T06:57:46+00:00

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Title	When to be exclusive
Author	mr_stylo
Upvotes	11
Comments	9
Date	September 13, 2018 6:32 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9ffnco/when_to_be_exclusive/
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