When you stop caring about girls needs, wants, feelings, emotions, do they actually start to chase more?

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-02-20T19:52:48+00:00

i refuse to turn into a fake asshole only cuz i know for a fact that there has has hasssss to be some decent females out there that would appreciate me for how i'd treat them, haven't found them yet but maybe one day, please don't change the person you are

NineteenAD9 · 2022-02-20T17:39:18+00:00

You should not pretend that you're an asshole. Some people are naturally good at being assholes and the others are so awful at pretending that they come off as lames. Don't be the latter.

The goal is to prioritize yourself and build a lifestyle that you are more concerned with keeping up than needing a woman. If that makes you an asshole, then so be it.

Zealousideal_Boot256 · 2022-02-20T18:40:00+00:00

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Ok_Cupcake8963 · 2022-02-21T05:42:56+00:00

You don't want a woman whose chasing you as a result of you being a dick - it's a sign of some serious insecurity issues.

You don't want to be an ass hole, you want to be a challenge for them, that means you should have standards. Don't go for ANY women, and make sure that's for real and not an act - women can tell the difference. Find out the criteria that you want in a woman, and stick to it. Don't sell yourself cheap.

You can be polite and cordial, just don't be a suck up.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-02-21T16:07:46+00:00

If you are respectful and didn’t get girls, being disrespectful will not get you girls neither.

If you thought giving a fuck didn’t get you girls, not giving a fuck will also not get you girls.

Sorry, but it’s a false dilema what you have here.

If they don’t chase you is because they are not sexually and emotionally attracted to you.

You are probably boring, logical, and un attractive and being an asshole now won’t get you laid .

Title	When you stop caring about girls needs, wants, feelings, emotions, do they actually start to chase more?
Author	Zealousideal_Boot256
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	February 20, 2022 5:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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