Where did i fumble?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-08-04T23:02:32+00:00

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FrederickVonFanculen · 2024-08-04T08:52:35+00:00

This sucks man. Apart that it's hard to understand what you're saying, the power balance is all on her side.

You are saying: 1) You are pretty 2) You are the biggest sinner I've come across (whatever way she reads this sentence, the subcommunication is that you're impressed with her) 3) Pretty like you dont deserve hell (stupid compliment. Also just because she's pretty she can't be a bad person?) 4) You are proving your worth to her ("very good at assuming things") 5) another useless compliment: angelic smile (stupid assumption, maybe she's a bitch) 5) again proving her worth to her saying you're very intriguing, but you haven't proved you are intriguing in the least.

You are communicating you are not worth much in essence, and that she has all the power. You did this with all your compliments without being cocky in the least, without challenging HER to prove her worth to you.

RealName7_ · 2024-08-04T08:34:57+00:00

At 11:50. Tbh it’s just hard to read what you’re saying. Is using @ as ‘at’ common practice? You’ve also already told her you think she’s pretty. Following up with essentially “I think your smile might be pretty too” isn’t doing too much. Plus you need to give her something she can respond with. Ask to see her smile or switch it up. Imho

DaygameCode · 2024-08-04T11:57:54+00:00

You are kissing her ass too much, it’s like one of those people that suck up to the boss to get a raise or a promotion. The girl feels you want something and thus your compliments do nothing other than to feed her ego, and she starts to see through your flattery.

She feels like you are being insincere and manipulative to get something from her, (sex). So she becomes wary of your intentions because she feels you just want to use her; to fuck and forget her… And that you are doing this thing with many other girls, instead of building a genuine special connection with her with the potential to grow into something eventually.

Asking for her number on the basis that she is pretty, angelic, so pretty she doesn’t deserve hell, comes across as superficial interest. You are not really valuing her for her personality, you are just valuing for her looks and assuming things about her personality based on those looks without bothering first to evaluate whether her personality is attractive or not.

So when you ask for digits or ask her for a date, she is unlikely to commit to any of that because she feels like you are not genuinely interested in her as a person, only interested in her as nothing more than a sex object, and that you are simply looking for a low hanging fruit, trying your lack with whoever girls makes it easiest for you.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-08-04T12:32:45+00:00

Dont listen to bozos - you already have a method of communicating. Why on earth do you need to get a number? Just ask her out

Title	Where did i fumble?
Author	Appropriate_Loss_420
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	August 4, 2024 8:13 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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