Hope everyone is good. Apologies for the long thread in advanced, but would be good to get some input on this one.
I’m back into dating and meeting new girls after getting out a 2 year LTR with a BPD girl, that really knocked my confidence until just recently
So I recently started doing TV extra work and last Wednesday did my first. There was this one girl sat across from the room who was constantly eyeing me up and smiling, but didn’t get a chance to approach and talk as she was around friends, and other times working.
At the end of the day (11 pm) I was waiting on the subway/tube platform, and she comes down with another 2 friends and asks if I wanted to go back out to get a smoke, as train was 15 min away.
She then starts asking how long it takes for me to get home, where I live etc. and then starts saying it’s a pain as she might have to get a night bus home, or pay for Uber.
We then go back down to the platform, to which she then says she can’t check the trains underground on her phones WiFi. So I then said I’d check for her and showed her the trains going to where she lives. She took a look and said she would t make it and then said how she would have to get a night bus home, in a complaining sort of way.
I then said we should hangout sometime, have her my phone and she put her number in. She said to text her tomorrow to let her know if I went back in the next day or not.
I messaged her and said ‘Hey it was good to meet you, I didn’t go in today, did you?’ She replied 5 min later just saying ‘Hey no I didn’t go in today’. I replied an hour later saying ‘That’s cool, you doing much? Let me know if want to hang out sometime, be cool’ and she didn’t reply.
I’m trying to figure where I went wrong with this one, wether she felt rejected/annoyed I didn’t ask her home (I thought would be too forward) or if she just wasn’t as interested as I thought. I actually couldn’t have brought her home as had to go meet a friend anyway, but didn’t say this.
Any input on this would be massively appreciated. And how I could go about this better next time. Thanks!
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