Where did I mess up?

redditorfor16days · 2011-12-30T18:46:54+00:00

if she feels your boner and keeps spooning you, then she's dtf. readjusting your dick is doing a piss-poor job of hiding it from her and just communicates your awkwardness. you should've escalated or gone and jerked off.

sillymallard · 2011-12-30T19:12:42+00:00

If she isn't doing anything, take her hand and place it on your thigh or ass and move her hand around on your body. She'll get the idea as you do the same to her. Start kissing her neck and gently pulling at her hair. Slowly move her hand toward your privates as you do the same to her. Move her hand away. Move it closer than the last time, etc. Just like pickup, a lot of girls won't do anything on their own in bed the first time unless you lead them.

ShowcasePUA · 2011-12-30T19:15:14+00:00

PRO-TIP that I've learned from experience on my last date: once she knows what's going on, call out the white elephant in the room.

Have her turn over and look her in the eyes. For added effect, place a hand on her cheek: "You know, this thing really has a mind of it's own and it's really annoying. Because you seem like a real charming and caring person, I want to get to know you first and snuggle before anything escalates. Fair enough?"

Then proceed to give her a comfortable squeeze and gently push your midsection towards her ass.

i8197 · 2011-12-30T22:59:57+00:00

She was never going to have sex in a room with other people.

Title	Where did I mess up?
Author	i8197
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	December 30, 2011 6:40 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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