At a party last night, end up going to sleep in a hotel room with two beds. I take one bed, and this hot blonde takes it with me. The other bed is taken by the couple.

We lay in bed and just make casual convo the four of us. Slowly end up going to sleep. I tell the blonde, "Let's Spoon!". She moves her self back a little and I move myself forward. We haven't even touched yet and I already have a raging boner. We spoon for a couple of minutes. I make the mistake? of adjusting my boner and she moves away to her end of the bed.

I retreat, and this plays out three times. What exactly are you supposed to do when you are spooning? Clearly she can feel my dick in her backside.

And, then she would get in the spooning position. Should I have gone for the spoon again? My concern is my dick would just stab her in the back. I am quite confused.