Where do y'all usually go to do cold approach besides bars/clubs?

Alextryingforgrate · 2019-07-01T21:11:16+00:00

In the street doing day game. You can see people for who they are.

JohnatanDoeson · 2019-07-01T20:51:38+00:00

I'm very new to all of this, but before i started looking at PUA and all of that stuff, my most successful spontaneous interactions with girls happened in parks while i was working out or walking my dogs.

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-07-01T21:14:19+00:00

Department stores, coffee shops, bookstores.

It comes off as more natural and most women don't expect it. Also typically you already have something to talk about cause if you're doing it right you use the environment to your advantage like if you're at a bookstore and comment on the book she's reading or she's looking at something on her laptop at a coffee shop.

The problem with night/club game is women expect you and put up alot of defenses for you. Same with cold approach in the middle of a street. A store, coffee shop, yoga class is unexpected and comes off as harmless mostly.

recyclablebanthas · 2019-07-02T04:10:56+00:00

Do you just do it anywhere and everywhere you go or specific places? I want to start practicing but not sure where to go. Walking around in my local city everyone seems in such a hurry and it seems difficult/unlikely to work to just stop people on the streets.

You could do this thing the more old school way that's frequently described, where you stand by yourself in public areas, and psyche yourself up to walk up to a girl and spit out a line, etc.

Or you can find ways that the whole thing goes smoother because it's working with the flow, instead of trying to pull off a successful interruption. (Most common "cold approach" methods involve walking up and trying to stop the girl to have a conversation that's completely unrelated to what she was just doing or thinking.)

Whereas something like observational openers, which David Wygant explains pretty well here, involve you paying attention and focusing on situational awareness, and then basing what you open with, on what you see in the feelings or actions of others around you, or commentary on things happening around you all at the time.

There's also the idea of finding social events or groups that regularly meet up, which are based around the idea of single people meeting other single people. People come already warmed up and primed to meet new people. (I can elaborate on this if you reply with your metro area and some hobbies you might have.)

Low-hanging fruit is there for a reason, man.

Title	Where do y'all usually go to do cold approach besides bars/clubs?
Author	badmonkingpin
Upvotes	8
Comments	5
Date	July 1, 2019 8:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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