Where to meet women

recyclablebanthas · 2018-05-02T04:43:08+00:00

Interesting post! Just going to supplement it......

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First place is Payless shoes. Yep I said it Payless shoes. Woman love shoe shopping. I had a friend who.....Saw a cute girl and asked her how the shoes he was trying on looked on him because he needed an opinion. They are married now.

The moral here is perhaps that there aren't really "places to meet women." The world is where you meet them, out doing things that people do.

The keys are:

Go out into the world, open to be playful and see the fun in everything, including yourself.
Pay attention.
Actively listen.
Talk to people. Ask questions. Make comments. Draw on observations if you want.

It's not really that complicated. We really just make it so.

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Second place is at a food truck.....

Again, catching people in the flow of life, is a good way to go. Grocery stores, food trucks, hell, elevators. :P

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3rd place would be work. No doubt men and women are in the work place. It easier to strike up a convo with a woman your interested in because you already have something in common. Your job!

Overall, it's about connecting with the moment because that shared experience you're having with people around you, is how you can easily connect.

Most people sleepwalk through life and simply being Captain Obvious is more powerful than people realize.

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The last one I have is on a walk at a nature center.....One girl is wearing a camera around her neck like she had been taking pictures. My friend asks her what she was taking pictures of. She seemed really open about talking about it.

The dirty little secret about "game" is that we, as men, don't really do as much work as we sometimes think we do. Some of the best dating interactions we will ever have, are with people like this who are making it "easy."

Chemistry is often FAST. People have an impression pretty quickly and if they're up for it, they'll often start playing along immediately.

PM-ME-Y0UR-BOOBS · 2018-05-02T10:51:01+00:00

The food truck idea is awesome! Never thought of that - it’s going to already be in an area with high energy, and still be a casual setting. Plus it could easily segue into an insta-date. Also, food trucks always have amazing food

tab13092 · 2018-05-02T13:53:24+00:00

To add, and kinda reinstate this; generally it's best to go to places/settings in which you feel comfortable or know other people (both social proof and you're in your element)

I always see people say "DUDE GO TO A BAR" but honestly, I don't really care to go to bars and I know a lot of other dudes don't. That's not to say that I don't/wouldn't, but generally I'm out of my element so I don't really focus on much else other then having a good time with my friends.

Other then general areas which you find yourself (as you said OP, buying shoes or getting food) when going out to do social activities try to focus on the ones that have you in a constant state of relaxed rather then nervous/tense.

Socialinception · 2018-05-02T19:53:28+00:00

Not sure if srs lol - I hope this is trolling.

I like that it's Payless shoes specifically, not a mall in general, but payless shoes lol

These aren't the worst suggestions ever, they're just all pretty bad compared to clubs/universities/malls/concerts/events/etc. If you spend a substantial amount of time looking for girls at food trucks, you're doing it wrong.

Title	Where to meet women
Author	valorallure
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Date	May 2, 2018 2:25 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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