Past few years have been blast - I have learned so much about myself, met so many people, had many great experiences with women, made many friends - all thanks to information found in this subreddit. I cannot be thankful enough!

I think most of realise eventually that creating attraction is easy and getting women isn't hard at all. Once you start getting better and better and improve yourself, you will start to develop standards which will then help you attract quality women in your life. However I feel like it is time to step up game, and dwell into meaningful relationships world.

However, whats next? Once, you find someone who you really enjoy time with, someone who shares same goals like you, someone you feel at ease with, talk about everything, and enjoy yourselves together in bedroom ... what do you do then?

Like, how do you act? How do you keep the women in your life? Do you still keep the original frame you attracted, if you did? How do you set boundaries? When? Should you talk about everything?

Because I have found one, but after 5-6 weeks of dating - it has been the best experiences, no joke, that I can tell. We both enjoy ourselves very much, and she is very very interested in me.

However, I feel somewhat nothing towards her. I feel like, after all these years of playing around, getting hurt a lot (either by our own foolish future thinking or by being naive) I cannot open emotionally anymore - no more foolishly falling in love with every girl you met and date. I feel closed, yet I am positive, like I feel I am grateful for everything; people tell that they feel positive energy from me. However currently I feel like I could just ghost her and go have quick one night stands and then later regret ghosting such quality person. I feel like an asshole even writing this last sentence...

Has anyone been in similar position? What did you do? How do you "fix" it?