Sexually pleasing woman

JediZim · 2018-06-27T14:03:59+00:00

I have heard of an ancient text called 'She Comes First.' You can find it on Ye Old Amazon Book Shoppe.

Toastwaver · 2018-06-27T19:27:27+00:00

Look up "Nina Hartley teaches" to find a series of videos on how to do it right.

jppbkm · 2018-06-27T14:38:44+00:00

Sex God method is excellent. She comes first as well

hunterpua · 2018-06-27T15:48:28+00:00

Does anyone have any good videos, tutorials, books, research papers, ancient texts, etc. on giving woman their best sexual experience?

White Tiger Tantra with Steve Piccus, anything by David Shade, Sex God Method by Daniel Rose, and the Four Hour Body by Tim Ferriss - its mostly fitness advice but the section about sex is golden.

Also, has someone been with a woman who has never orgasmed when having sexual intercourse?

Yeah, I just told her, "Don't worry about cumming. Lets just focus on fucking really good and feeling as much pleasure as possible."

She didn't cum the first time or the second time but by the third time she spazzed out really hard when she finally came. It was so fucking hot watching her lose herself like that.

Hard to tell with your specific situation but I find that taking the pressure off of trying to orgasm and just fucking because its fun usually helps with girls like that.

Colt42O · 2018-06-27T18:50:38+00:00

Girls get off on stimulation, if you stimulate multiple areas of her body at the same time she will orgasm quicker. Eat her out with one hand on her boobs and the other rubbing her clit etc. Keep your hands busy, always be touching or grabbing something. Kiss their necks and nibble their ears. When you're fucking and get good stroke rhythm going and you can tell she's enjoying it, just hold that rhythm for as long as you can. If you keep stroking it at the same pace for a long period of time she will climax faster.

iwantyourboobgifs · 2018-06-28T00:03:30+00:00

https://imgur.com/9P5ou5U This is a write up from a chick I found way back. Some good advice.

Teasing I believe is very important and it breaks it down here.

By chance I was just talking to a previous fwb about an hour ago. She was telling me how nobody has eaten her out nearly as good. I was dumbfounded. I didn't think it was hard. Don't think I'm anything special. So I asked what the difference was. Apparently too many guys just give them a little rub and jam their cock in (heard this a couple times), don't even go down. For the ones that do, they don't focus on the clit, they basically shove their tongues in the vag and try tongue fucking the chick(also its very tiring on the tongue and mouth and you won't last long). The occasional lick like that is fine, but for the love of God, focus on teasing and licking the clit. Worship it and enjoy it. Get her off first, then penetrate her. She will be satisfied even if you don't have any stamina. You take care of her first, she will take care of you.

ReighIB · 2018-06-28T00:12:40+00:00

If you're sleeping with a girl you've just met, it would be pretty difficult to give her the best sexual experience. Good sexual experience? Sure. The best? Maybe someone else knows but I don't. I have to know more about her and see what she's into to give her the best sexual experience.

I think it's important to build from knowing your sexuality, desires and what gets you off the most. Do you get off from your five senses? Is getting turned on mentally important to you? What kind of situation excites you the most? What would you like a woman to do to give you the best sexual experience of your life?

Unless you're completely lost, I wouldn't spend too much time on watching tutorials, books and especially research papers. That just sounds so dry to me.

I see it like learning to play a sport. You can read about it, watch video tutorials, all that jazz but you won't actually learn anything until you go out and get some real experiences. Texts and videos can only get you so far and what sounds good on paper/video doesn't necessarily mean it'll be of any use when it's about to go down.

Just like sports, everyone has their own unique style. So something that works for me won't necessarily mean it'll work for you.

Also you have to keep in mind every girl has their own sexual preferences and turn ons and if it's your first time with a new girl, you kind of have to test the water a bit to see how she reacts to get some idea on what she might be into or not into.

I think the most important thing is to have both of you have a fun time. Don't even think about giving her the best sexual experience, unless you're getting paid for it lol

Some girls might like it a bit rough, some girls might like to hear you whisper something to her, some girls like to be slowly built up, some girls like it straight up, etc.

Again, like sports, there's a lot of mental aspects and I'll even go far as to say it's more mental than physical, but don't neglect the physical part.

I can go on about what works for me and what I do but that won't be much help.

I wrote a lot but imo it comes down to being in tune with your sexuality and having real experiences. Also it takes two, well usually two, to tango and for me the best sex are when both of you are having a blast.

Be creative, be spontaneous, be bold, be wild, be gentle, etc. Just read the situation and her reaction and make it exciting and fun! It's sex!

If anything, just have sex with her like it's the last time you're going to get laid in your life.

As far as woman like to be dominated, that's hard to answer without knowing just how much she wants to be dominated. With hardcore stuff, that could mean a lot things.

I like being the dominating role but only if I know that's what she's really into so you kind of have to go with your own judgment on that one.

tl;dr: It's sex! Have fun! You'll only know how to do that with having experiences and going through trial and error. Imho the most important thing is for you and the girl, and whoever else involved, to have a blast.

TyroneTheSavage · 2018-06-28T04:47:44+00:00

Don't read bullshit books, manuals or videos. This also includes porn to some extent. Why do i say this? Every woman has different reactions to different things and you must be able to go with the flow and adapt on the fly. There is no secret recipe. Keep an open mind and go with what works for her.
A shit ton of women can't orgasm from intercourse alone, no matter how hung you are. You SHOULD read about that. Ignore all the SJW bullshit and focus on the raw numbers. https://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/sex-study-female-orgasm-eludes-majority-women/story?id=8485289
Don't pressure yourself into trying to get her to reach orgasm, it might not happen for her. Just be in the moment and do what she likes.
The lead up is important, women are typically harder to get going sexually and require foreplay. But, if your doing your part earlier in the dating aspect....shes pretty turned on before she even hits the bedroom with you.

Advice - I have a girl that i kick it with who is in an open marriage. She text me and tells me how she soaks her panties just thinking about me. Now, this is a woman who has dick at home. She can get laid anytime she wants. But, i'm the one who keeps her wet all day. I am in her head, my foreplay is just a midday text, telling her not to wear any panties when she sees me later that night. So, when you have done your job, foreplay is always happening. There is literally a song about this Janet Jackson - Twenty Foreplay

terrorium · 2018-06-28T04:50:28+00:00

I'm a woman. Not gonna write a manifesto but I will say soft touch does wonders. Caressing a woman's entire body will definitely turn her on. Don't feel like you have to be kissing the entire time but also don't forget to kiss.

Gently run your hands over her legs, switch between having your palm flat on her and the alternative, just fingertips, which tends to be more powerful but switching between the two is the best. When it comes to touching her, touch her through her undies first. If shes sensitive like me, her privates have to be warmed up otherwise it's just too much sensation and doesn't feel good. I honestly don't even like my pussy touched raw with fingers very much at all. So that's a thing.

Run your hands through her hair etc. Basically just make it a sensory experience and it'll probably be good even if yer dick doesn't make her cum the first time.

iwantyourboobgifs · 2018-06-28T00:03:48+00:00

https://imgur.com/9P5ou5U This is a write up from a chick I found way back. Some good advice.

Teasing I believe is very important and it breaks it down here.

By chance I was just talking to a previous fwb about an hour ago. She was telling me how nobody has eaten her out nearly as good. I was dumbfounded. I didn't think it was hard. Don't think I'm anything special. So I asked what the difference was. Apparently too many guys just give them a little rub and jam their cock in (heard this a couple times), don't even go down. For the ones that do, they don't focus on the clit, they basically shove their tongues in the vag and try tongue fucking the chick(also its very tiring on the tongue and mouth and you won't last long). The occasional lick like that is fine, but for the love of God, focus on teasing and licking the clit. Worship it and enjoy it. Get her off first, then penetrate her. She will be satisfied even if you don't have any stamina. You take care of her first, she will take care of you.

lions_of_fitness · 2018-06-27T22:58:26+00:00

Watch this video bro. Shit change the world for me: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3hhUgZkp0Q

allaboutthebenjis093 · 2018-06-27T23:24:51+00:00

Make sure to give her some time to warm up, don’t just try and shove it in

MicDrop2017 · 2018-06-28T01:54:28+00:00

You have to rub her clit---either with your tongue or finger...

gradcasanova · 2018-06-28T03:42:00+00:00

I wrote a book about this that has gone on to become an amazon best seller. Basically I wanted to make it easy as possible for Any to pick up the book And have the tools be great at sex and really all stages of hooking up. If you want to check it out, you can find it on Amazon. It’s called “The Hookup Handbook: 28 sex fundamentals to give her mind blowing orgasms”. I also have a post on my blog you can read for free, called “how to fuck a girl: the 7 fundamentals of mindblowing sex.” Search it on google and you’ll see it.

Hope this helps!

Title	Sexually pleasing woman
Author	IamJustAWizard
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Date	June 27, 2018 1:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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