Which one would you recommend ?

Thin_Protection5616 · 2025-12-02T17:51:28+00:00

People will ask the most vague questions without providing any background information, and somehow expect to get a good answer.

Virtual_Ad_4817 · 2025-12-03T07:17:18+00:00

Ahhh I got my start with double your dating and it's great.

The Game is more a story. I guess you can learn a few things from it but it's not in any way comprehensive and you'll walk away with more questions than answers.

Mystery is where the real meat and potatoes is at. I wouldn't recommend everything he teaches but pay attention to what he says about:

Attraction switches
Compliance model
Microcalibration

Also his teachings about how to have conversations with women were revolutionary for me. When men talk to each other it's purely a "fact exchange." But when women talk to each other the focus is way more about emotions than anything. Mystery has a very good framework for talking to women in ways that keep them engaged, by using emotional highs and lows instead of pure fact exchanges like most men do.

So personally I'd recommend Double your Dating and Venusian arts - but also check out Mystery's lesser-known book Revelation.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-12-03T10:11:45+00:00

David DeAngelo/Eben appears to be the only reasonably sane individual of the three out of character. He's clearly a seasoned marketer and used his business sav for guys online, an avenue that wasn't quite as explored during his day. He's still married to the same wife the PUA community trashed him for marrying based on her looks and from what I've seen appears to be successful in later ventures outside of the dating realm.

His old system is still somewhat dated and chauvinistic. None of them should be used as instructional systems. No one should display arrogance or narcissistic type behaviors. Confidence is fine, not arrogance. I get that he was trying to market that guys should have self belief and not fall into nice guy tendencies, but the framing that she has to win him over, etc is pretty cringe.

OpinionThink481 · 2025-12-02T15:08:32+00:00

Double your dating

Title	Which one would you recommend ?
Author	Potential-Farmer8066
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Date	December 2, 2025 2:58 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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