Which things should I not take personally while approaching women ?

azizbadaasjsj · 2022-03-09T08:42:24+00:00

You should take NOTHING personally when approaching & when getting rejected.

nothing is more stupid than "what did i do wrong guys?" nothing.

The girl who harshly reject you on monday morning may be okay to instadate + pull to home 30 minutes after meeting her tuesday night . it's matter of the "STATE" . not you.

your job as the practitioner is to play the numbers game & find the ones that are ready to instadate & pulling home.

Jay-Ames · 2022-03-09T09:00:57+00:00

The rules are simple . Approach and don't give a fuck. She likes your approach? Great. She doesn't like your approach? Move on to the next girl and don't give a fuck.

mightymite88 · 2022-03-09T08:46:43+00:00

Take NOTHING personally

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-09T13:48:28+00:00

You are not supposed to take anything a girl does or says personal. That’s how it works. Don’t take anything seriously at all when you are seducing girls.

To illustrate let’s put some extreme examples:

She: “You are such a bitch”

You: “That’s like my special talent, thank you for noticing!”

She: Your mother is a whore

You: “Correction, she is the queen of whores, not just a whore”

See what I am doing?

I am not getting butt hurt, offended or triggered, I’m not even trying to attack her back, instead I am agreeing with what she is saying and amplifying it even more for fun to absurd levels.

But “hey! why would you insult your own mother” i hear you say…

Well, because i’m not being serious duh, it’s obvious through my tone of voice which comes off as sarcastic, and the girl can tell you are not being serious. Heck even if she thought you were serious she would shut up because she isn’t getting what she wants.

What she wants is you getting triggered, she doesn’t really care about your mom, all she wants is you getting emotional.

If she doesn’t get that because you are agreeing and amplifying with a smile, she can’t win, and it shows you don’t take anything personal.

That’s how far you need to go with the “i don’t give a fuck about anything” attitude, and the “I don’t take anything personal” attitude.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-03-09T13:18:49+00:00

As the others are saying, none of it should be taken as an attack on who you are as a person.

However, some of it should be taken as a criticism of your technique. There will always be random "failures" that truly have nothing to do with you, but look for problematic patterns. If a certain problem keeps popping up, then it's time to look for a way to attack it

Title	Which things should I not take personally while approaching women ?
Author	lmao_lemo
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	March 9, 2022 8:35 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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