I've seen a girl for a month now. First date was a drink. Second date dinner finished with a kiss. Third date netflix and chill. I feel like I've followed all the seduction rules, as she has pretty much fallen for me, and I for her.

But yesterday I kind of declared my feelings towards her, and this doesn't look like me. So I was thinking, what kind of things kill attraction? I want to keep building it, but I feel like after you admit you like each other, it's harder to "play by the Seductive rules"?