It's a bit of a paradox for men who are considered nice guys. They make an attempt to treat women like shit and this is what happens.

They treat her like shit-->she becomes very caring and loving to him-->he thinks this is a signal for him to be loving and caring to her-->she leave him for a guy who treats her like shit

If you're not an asshole, don't pretend to be one. I'm not saying be a nice guy either, but don't be something you're not because your true self will show up if you're being an asshole just to get a girl who likes assholes.

Another thing that happens is you start to resent and disrespect women when you see this going on. A man naturally wants to treat women right, but some women take a man's kindness for weakness.

My advice? Leave these women alone. Let women know that you're turned off by women who like being treated like shit.

When you put it out there that you're turned off by women who like being treated like shit, you'll start attracting women who like men to treat them right. Don't confuse "treating her right" with "kissing her ass". We're not going in the complete opposite direction either. What you want to do is treat her right, but also be able to put her in her place when you need to.

Some women think that putting her in her place is a bad thing, but if you don't put a woman in her place, she's gonna disrespect you and leave you for a man who will.

So if you're a nice guy, don't be nice, be respectful and command respect from the women you interact with.

Her: "Can you drop me off at this guy's house. I think he really likes me"

You: "Why don't you have him pick you up. If he really wanted to see you, he would find a way, wouldn't he?"

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Her: "I don't know why he cheated on me. I treat him good, don't I?"

You: "You have a bad habit of being attracted to men who treat you like shit. Once I found that out about you, I was completely turned off. I like treating my women right and they stay with me because I treat them so good."

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Her: "Can you do my homework for me. I have a big test and I don't want to fail."

You: "Well, if you study, you'll pass the test. I don't even like doing my own homework, why would I do double the work?"

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These are some things that the nice guy may run into. If you put a woman in her place and let her know that you're not gonna let her use you, she will start respecting you. If you let her know that you like treating women with respect and you're not attracted to women who like being treated like shit, you'll notice that you'll attract a higher quality of women.

Yes, women like a man with an edge. This goes for women across the board. But if a woman allows a man to treat her like shit, and chase him, she may have some self-esteem issues. If you come along and treat her right, she may think you're weak because in her mind, she may think she doesn't deserve to be treated right. Some women haven't had proper guidance that you have to be the girl who men wife up and keep, not the one who men knock up and leave.

Don't be an asshole just to get women. Be respectful and command respect from women. The both of you will be happier in the long run.