Why Cold Approaching is Pretty Much Useless

totalradass · 2012-04-09T01:02:09+00:00

Social circle game is definitely easier, but Aaron is full of shit here.

I pulled three times in the last week from cold approach, 2 of which involved pre-coital interactions of under 30 minutes. I am headed to a fourth girls house tomorrow night, a girl I met Thursday night on a cold approach (me vs a 4-set).

I am NOT a savant, and Im not unusually good looking. My only assets are decent fashion sense, a good vocabulary, and painstakingly cultivated big brass balls.

The ROI on cold approach can be really good when you get on a roll. Momentum is real.

dantaeos · 2012-04-09T08:05:42+00:00

This just confirms my belief that Aaron just talks out his ass and zero fucking clue about game.

nycprowl · 2012-04-09T02:46:53+00:00

TL;DR: Social game is easier than cold approaching.

Waterboy13 · 2012-04-09T01:48:07+00:00

This just annoys me because it is so.....one sided. Sure you can join a yoga class if you enjoy yoga to meet women...but everybody doesn't have the same interests. I like metal music and at metal concerts there are barely any women that are single and attractive. I go to the gym and have a class there, but there are only about 8 women that are there to talk to. The same women are going to be there next week, not a new set of 8 women.

What I'm trying to say is that without me doing cold approaches for the past three months (irregularly), I could not have built up much confidence (which I lacked and it translated to my tone of voice and body language). I would still have AA for those "warm" approaches that this man speaks of. I would not have experienced great conversations and would never have obtained the numbers of a handful of interesting women, attractive or not. I would still be getting wasted at the bar and being that dude that just stands there with his buddies. Cold approaches are just something that I do now. I do it while i'm at the bar/club that I would have been at anyway because me and my friends enjoy going out and socializing.

Cold approaches are a waste of time? I sincerely doubt it is. If you think it is a waste of time...well...look up self-fulfilling prophecy.

lolwhatsausername · 2012-04-09T04:09:41+00:00

My motto: Do whatever works for you.

Title	Why Cold Approaching is Pretty Much Useless
Author	AaronSleazy
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	April 8, 2012 11:29 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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