I suppose it depends on your goals (long term relationships vs casual encounters) but daygame just seems so much less successful for everything. Daygame is hard and punishing. It often takes 200+ approaches to even get anywhere close to a lay. Contrast this to nightgame, where I can get a lay about 50% of the times I go out (and my game is nothing special). Why do some people choose daygame over night game?

I'll keep my reasons brief.

Reasons that I believe daygame is limited in its success:

  • Women are just going about their day and are likely not in the mood to meet new people let alone have sex with a stranger. The times I've run daygame just felt like straight up harassment, and I was being friendly and consciously avoiding aggression. Contrast this to night game where a lot of women are going out to meet people (whether they admit it or not).

  • Not only are women not in the mood, but even if they are normally friendly people, they can still be startled or taken aback due to how uncommon day approaches are. I've personally noticed women are much more sketched out during a day approach, compared to a night approach. Again, I'm not a particularly aggressive dude and do my best to make the girl feel comfortable.

  • Women are less inhibited in bars and clubs because of alcohol, the social lubricant. Take a girl on a date which involves alcohol vs one that doesn't and you see the huge extent to which alcohol shifts the mood towards her wanting to fuck you.

  • Day game feels like a chore. Even if you do it while going on about your own day (e.g. on public transport on the way to work/uni), it's easy for it to feel forced. Contrast this with night game which is quite enjoyable. I know this is inherently subjective, but during night game even if you're striking out, you still have wings/friends around you, music to enjoy (if you make the wise decision to go to a bar or a club which plays music you like), you can grab a drink, you can strike up a conversation with chill dudes, you can dance. It's an environment designed to be fun, so even if you go home empty handed, its easy for the night to still feel like you were living your life, as opposed to day game where you're doing laps of the same mall or beach patrolling for pussy.

  • Logistics is a nightmare. If they're busy they're not going to drop whatever they're doing to come have a drink/do some other random activity at your place. OK, so you can't seal the lay. You can get her number, but we all know getting numbers is a much lower return game than sealing the deal. Only like 30-40% of the girls who's number you get will even message you back.