This has been a recurring theme in my life, and applies to both romantic relationships and friendships.

I've recently had two (one romantic and one friendship) end and it just happened all of a sudden.

There is a LOT of backstory to this, but I'd just mention the overarching theme.

Girl and I are in love. We text each other non-stop, hangout, makeout, have sex, tell each other we love each other and make each others life worth living.

Then one day, poof. Instantly changed to having no feelings what so ever.

With my friend, OMG you're my best friend, I love you dude! I love hanging out with you etc. We bond, we share stories about each others lives etc.

Then one day, poof. No msg and total blackout.

The reason why I ask this is that I ran into that (friend) girl today and she was literally treating me like I was a random stranger, whereas she was hugging me and giving me kisses 3 months ago.

I could care less tbh, but I've been thinking, one invests in relationships right?, emotional, physical, time, energy etc. What the fuck is the point of all this when someone can just, in an instant, pretend nothing like that ever happened.

I have exes, I have friends I am no longer in touch with anymore, but if I ran into anyone of em, I'd still greet them with a smile and would love to chill for a bit and hang out..talk.

scratching head