Some girls I meet in night clubs are extremely warm:

  • We makeout
  • She offers the number
  • She also offers her IG, just in case...
  • She takes videos of us for her IG/whatsapp stories
  • Her friends comment that they like me
  • She asks if I will remember her tomorrow
  • etc.

(of course, not all of the above always happens, but a big chunk does)

Then, the next day, I message, she replies back a few times, and then stops replying... wtf?

This happens a lot to me.

Of course, I build comfort, and I always try to pull, but if the logistics don't work, I get the number. But these numbers rarely convert into dates.

This is getting very frustrating...

One disclaimer: these girls are pretty hot. Of course, a girl who is less attractive will respond to texts better (but even those sometimes flake).