Why isn't she just walking away?

NunoHimself · 2017-09-28T21:09:14+00:00

That's a low self-esteem girl. Learn more here. Over dramatic and extreme post, but you get the gist of it.

If I was you, I would friendzone her. They usually bring a lot of problems and are very complicated to deal with. However, if you want to fuck her, keep her chasing. Don't give her the validation that she wants, she'll keep escalating and will often fuck with you to get it.

Just don't be mean to her, she doesn't do it on purpose. In her head, she's just insecure about herself and wants to be nice to others. It's already bad enough to have low self-esteem and being in compensation all the time, don't make it worse. If you really like her, try to help her out.

DatingCoach111 · 2017-09-28T22:26:41+00:00

Common textbook shit test. If you chase, she'll back away. She messaged you because you decided to quit chasing.

If you want this to lead to something more, then keep the conversation light and playful. Do not: talk about emotions, relationships, etc. If you end up screwing, then fuck her really good until she brings up the topic of exclusivity. Allow it to be her idea, not yours.

_valtiel_ · 2017-09-30T21:17:44+00:00

I can see it coming from a mile away these days, nowadays I'm just mean to them and they hopefully go away. They usually don't though. If I choose to ignore their texts, its for good, even after she texts me again, especially if it's not about work.

I don't really feel sorry for them, they were hell when I was younger. It's highly manipulative, and partially the reason why I use seddit. I'm highly confident, self-aware and driven it is why they hate me so much. They know earlier on that I don't need them. (Really from being alone for so long, what's another year without getting a GF/getting laid to me?). Sounds great to me compared to mixed signals.

The most extreme example was when a girl caressed my thighs and asked me how big I was, when we were studying. Just wanted me to do her homework. That's the action of someone who is desperate, when texts with heart emojis and verbal flirting doesn't work.

DatingCoach111 · 2017-10-01T02:08:09+00:00

Charisma is desire without neediness. It could take hours to explain it.

Zoidberg22 · 2017-09-28T20:15:16+00:00

She likes you now?

sorry_mommy · 2017-09-28T21:58:41+00:00

Fuck, dude, are you new? She's made you her beta orbiter.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-29T01:26:05+00:00

You have to make her chase you. You never do the "I like you too!" eager puppy dog response. That dries vaginas immediately. You have to say "thats cool, maybe we can go out sometime" instead. Girls want what they can't have.

FruityLexiaKing · 2017-09-29T12:16:54+00:00

I think you came off too strong and she may have pushed you into her beta orbiter box.

RobbieGarrett · 2017-10-12T21:46:45+00:00

She got back in contact again. She just can't let go honestly. She was like I should come see her, so I said she should come see me and stay with me. Rather than me spend money flying to her.

Conversation went on a bit and she said how she's a weird person and can't explain it. Like really? Then she was like "Good night my friend" - so I said "Cheers mate"

Title	Why isn't she just walking away?
Author	RobbieGarrett
Upvotes	1
Comments	39
Date	September 28, 2017 8:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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