Disclaimer; this is not a how to or something similar. This is not PUA theory or inner game. This is a list of questions to ask yourself in order to better understand yourself and your approach. This sub and its content has become trash; it's just a bunch of people posting reworded theories or under experimented ideas. That is not pickup or seduction, and you should not be trying to become a pickup artist. The point of this sub is simply getting the women you like to like you back. So let's get to it.

P.s. Replace women with whatever you're into if it's not women.

Questions:

Why did I get into seduction/pickup?

Am I just trying to pick up women?

Am I only in it for sex?

Do I spend more time on theory than action?

Am I confident in myself?

Do I know what type of women I like?

Do I want to find love?

Do I have REAL friends?

Do I know what kind of sex I like?

Do I fully understand my sexual orientation?

Where am I doing/trying to do pickup?

How do I learn? (As in how does your brain accept new knowledge)

What theories/ideas/advice resonates with me the most?

How often do I talk to strangers?

Who am I when I'm truly alone?

Am I happy with who I am/how I look?

If no to the above question, why and can it be changed/can I change it?

Where do I live/what kind of women live near me?

What is my dream girl?

Is seduction actually for me, or is there better ways of achieving my goals with women?

Am I am online dater?

This list is thoroughly incomplete because I only put most of the major "single" questions. There are more for the different types of relationships that can come from seduction, and also more on the subject of sex and kinks, but that's best left to r/sex.

This is something that helped me a lot. I took a long break from reading theories and going out gaming to simply find and define myself. I won't go into detail about my success, but now I do what (or who) I want and I don't touch this sub. I'm humble to it for where it got me, but this is like the student watching the master go through the early stages of dementia.