I just read this text:

"Women Are Too Picky."

Now… I’ll tell you with 100% honesty that yes, women are picky. But I don’t think that’s a bad thing.

The real question is, why aren’t you picky?

Obviously, you think this girl is attractive enough for you, but is she smart enough? Does she have a good enough sense of humor? Is she too insecure/clingy? Does she agree with you that flip-flops are/aren’t acceptable footwear, or that the Cowboys are the greatest/worst team ever, or that Han did/didn't shoot first?

In short: is this girl even worth your time? If she’s not, be picky, and search for a connection somewhere else.

I read this narrative over and over in different places with different wordings.

I don't think there is any guy out there who genuinely cares about her character when she is very hot.

I almost always see it as a chore I have to do.

Also, my standards are way too high for any woman to meet.

And ultimately I would be fooling myself if I pretended that a hot woman needed to have a great personality.

Every guy - provided he does not lie - will admit that ultimately all women are the same personalitywise.

Unless they are traumatized, they all want to marry, get children and a house. And don't you dare have other plans.

Sex is about reproduction. Her character is not part of the equation.

So if you just want to have sex with her, why bother qualifying her and pretending to care for her - mostly replacable and especially often lack of qualities.

Regarding the quote:

  • Sense of humour? Women? On which planet do you live?
  • Insecure/clingy? Every woman out there is insecure.
  • Nobody cares about flip-flops. Those topics are just making yourself shoot in your own foot. You are not her gay best friend.
  • Nobody cares about her opinion of cowboys.
  • This whole "is she worth it", if you go by personality, of course not. No girl is. But this is not about personality.