Let me cut through a lot of the noise out there.

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There is a serious reason why some material works for some people, other material does not, people follow completely different gurus and schools, and why a lot of guys have to look under every stone there is, until they either figure how to improve or get fed up and leave the scene.

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The point here is what Tyler in the Blueprint called "raw attraction", or what other people call Charisma or Character Imprints. Some of the truth about this is, that almost anybody has a basic level of Charisma, but it can take many many different forms and sizes. Making a list from a psychological standpoint would not only be a taboo-breaker, it would also mean crashing down on the reader with what would be severe psychological violence for most of them (sorry).

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But that doesn't mean it is not possible to draw certain conclusions (after 16 years in the field).

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As a Pickup student, you already have a certain Raw Attraction to offer to females (at least, if you're not completely asexual or have severe mental problems that would usually mean you cannot be here with us).

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The issue is that when you try Pickup and Seduction methods on girls, they will at some point look under the hood, and see if it's actually based on real Charisma, or Raw Attraction. If it is in line with your "nature", if you want so.

Whatever happens if this is not the case and they spot it, you won't get the lay usually (without resorting to behavior that would basically make you a black mark in her history).

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So what you need to really do to improve your game, is to find advice that matches your natural Charisma, because that will be the techniques that you can really pull off.

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There's only a small range of "charisma-independant advice" that you can possibly give, one is to learn to read body language, then there's stuff like mindfulness meditation et cetera.

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What the guru's don't want to tell people (because freaking everyone on the planet must be able to go from Chode to mPUA because it freaking sells), is that you can improve a lot, but only in the range of your Charisma, and only if what you do matches it. If it doesn't, it will look like you're acting, she'll feel manipulated, and it just doesn't feel right (the attraction is not there). In short, you won't usually get the lay.

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On the other hand, if you find advice that ideally perfectly matches your Character, you will see improvements in a very short timespan and with ease.

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So the Advice here is, go and search for the material that really matches your personality. For most of the guys out there, that material exists somewhere in this (pretty large) pile of material that constitutes the theoretical basis of this "scene". Everyone will tell you that you just need his DVD set or book and you will have it all, while the truth is that you need to dig through tons of stuff until you have something that is so on spot for you that you can execute it in almost no time.

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Truth is, this takes time and effort, and even though there are some guys who had a "lucky shot" and quickly found their piece of cake, the average guy does not get really good at anything in a short or medium timespan.

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Thanks for your time, it's pretty much possible I get some angry responses, but at least I am not bullshitting you for marketing purposes.