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A little backstory of myself, I am 22 M that has been introduced to game and seduction through "the game" by Neil Strauss and have been lurking around here for quite some time now. Just like many I have consumed loads of theoretical information without actually undertaking a lot of action in the past years.

Like many know, cold approaching through the day, sometimes referred to as “daygame”, is one of the best ways to meet hot women. This is simply because:

  1. Not many people do it in a socially calibrated way, most of the time it’s just creepy guys catcalling or approaching hot girls.
  2. It shows balls, represents masculinity and confidence.
  3. Gets you ahead of the pack.

Think about it for a second, how many times have you been walking throughout the city and this hot girl walks past you? This will happen at least a few thousand times throughout your life. Imagine if you could talk to her and actually get her out on a date with you. Even if it sounds out of the world, it is actually possible. But the question is, where do you fucking start?

In the past year, I have watched a lot of videos and read many articles about daygame. I even tried it a few times when commuting to Uni or work. But just like everyone else, approach anxiety always kicks in before an approach and it just makes the whole “talking to girls” situation so much more difficult, resulting in many opportunities being lost. This is of course really frustrating and hard to change, or is it really?

In the past, I always tried to get any of my close friends into daygaming or other forms of pickup, which sadly never clicked with them. This is because of the fact that people are stuck in their happy comfort zone, believing that faith will bring them boundless rewards that they didn’t work for. But this is not how the world works, if you want something you have to go and get it.

In the past week, I came into contact with a few guys from a wing group that was created by the daygame youtuber "James Tusk". After chatting online, we agreed to meet up in the city for a daygame session.

After we met up for some coffee with the purpose of getting to know each other, it became clear that everyone was a beginner when it came to daygame.

Normally when going on an individual session, you feel strange… you feel like you don’t belong and that everyone knows what you are doing. This creates the so-called “spotlight effect”. When having wings around you that have the same goals, a comfortable feeling will surge through your body, making the blowouts/approach anxiety a lot easier to handle and successes more fulfilling.

What once was just a simple daygame session rapidly transitioned into a full week Bootcamp. We met up every other day over the span of the coming 10 days, developing a bond amongst brothers, going on multiple dates, exchanging our results, and becoming a lot better at our overall interactions with women.

In my experience daygaming is one of the most powerful tools for meeting women. Meeting up with wings got me out of this approach anxiety hesitation shell and boosted my confidence big time. I recommend everyone to try this out when getting started, I wish I had done this earlier.

Wing it baby!

video for finding a wing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E-1NbDu-h2c