You're going to see many differing viewpoints on here... Now accept that and get out into the field

freshairr · 2014-01-23T00:05:18+00:00

Sometimes I feel like a lot of comments in here on articles/questions/FR are from people who do a lot of reading and studying, but not a lot of IRL interactions.

HappyJerk · 2014-01-23T00:39:17+00:00

One thing that I don't like seeing in the PUA community is people who are trying to find some magic formula that always works. I'm sorry, but there just is none. People are different and there are some general principles that are good to know but at the end of the day it all boils down to you and her. There is shit that works amazingly with some girls and bombs hard with some girls.

Furthermore, if you try to make everything a scientific formula you're not going to be organic. Remember, girls don't want to think you're playing a game or reading a script. They need to think that everything you are doing is perfectly organic.

thehigheststatusmale · 2014-01-22T23:44:09+00:00

Every thing auto-corrects in field. It auto corrects!!

surfinfan21 · 2014-01-23T01:02:43+00:00

There's no better technique than showing a women your best side.

bl1y · 2014-01-24T14:04:29+00:00

Reading so much also helps to breed scarcity mindset. Some guys are trying to read enough so that they can go out into the field with a backpack full of theory and succeed with the 1 or 2 girls they approach.

That very mindset of "Learn enough to not fuck up the only interaction!" of course undermines you. You become nervous, needy, outcome dependent, etc.

Far better to get a handful of theory and try it out with a dozen people, then go back for another handful and try it out on a dozen more.

Title	You're going to see many differing viewpoints on here... Now accept that and get out into the field
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Date	January 22, 2014 11:08 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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