How do I open?

GaiusScaevolus · 2014-05-11T07:43:10+00:00

You open. I know it sounds kinda dickish, but opening is a skill in the same vein as riding a bike without training wheels, or driving the standard. It's a skill you have to develop on your own and perfect with practice. Descriptions and step by step guides from others will only get you so far until you actually go out and try doing it a few hundred times.

EducatedCavemen · 2014-05-11T08:36:49+00:00

without being creepy? there is no opener in existence that will not make you look creepy, because an opener is not about what you say but how you say it and how you presents yourself.

You can say almost anything as an opener as long as you sound confident, body language is relaxed and even dressed decently never hurts.

You can open by saying "Hey, do you like pickles?" as long as the three things above are checked then everything will go smoothly. Sound like you are scared, start to crumble up because you are nervous that you start to look like you are in the fetal position and are dressed like a hobo, then yeah, you are going to look a little creepy.

robesta · 2014-05-11T01:42:53+00:00

Practice. Open up women over and over. Creepiness in approaching is more often than not a byproduct of making her feel uncomfortable because you're nervous and uncomfortable.

DCLdit · 2014-05-11T04:39:24+00:00

"Hey, whats up?"

apackofwankers · 2014-05-11T11:39:08+00:00

"Come with me if you want to live"

Geocan001 · 2014-06-08T07:54:38+00:00

I'm quickly learning that my job has incubated me for the open. it's not about having a specific script or line. In fact I can generate conversation from the weather, phones, my interests, somebody's plans. In fact, as far as status goes within my team, I'm probably well above the supervisors. I build rapport with the top echelons of the company. Not by having a "line" that works.

Here's a tip, if it's crowded, mention it to her. If she's carrying note it and ask if she's coming or going. Find the little details that aren't necessarily genital focussed for initial contact.

My problems come into cross applying this. I'm learning to bring it away from the professional side of things to social contexts with different goals.

robesta · 2014-05-11T01:43:13+00:00

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Date	May 11, 2014 1:22 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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