Women who cohabited with someone besides their future husband were more than twice as likely to end up in divorce court.

RSDevotion1 · 2022-03-29T12:15:14+00:00

I quoted that from the WSJ article, but the actual study shows an even greater divorce multiplier.

SuperSupremeKai · 2022-03-30T06:42:20+00:00

I'll play the devil's advocate for a bit here:

This, with many other articles and studies, show that when women have more experience, they tend to get out much faster and tolerate much less.

This might not be connected to their promiscuity or their need to jump from guy to guy, but rather that they know what is a good relationship and what isn't. This also includes the fact that there are better men out there as well.

A woman who only met and married one guy doesn't know that there is someone better and someone worse than him out there, and will be content with him unless he's absolutely terrible with her.

So the question is, Is it really that bad to attack women for having multiple relationships prior to their marriage? I can agree sleeping around hurts everyone involved with her, including her, but relationships?

KlutzMat · 2022-04-09T09:43:47+00:00

I'm a Christian and saving chastity until marriage is like law in the Bible and church. I know this isn't stat or anything but maybe someone might be able to relate this kind of religious values with this observation?

Maybe people back kinda noticed this and tried to figure out a way to do something about it?

Really curious to the people's thoughts here

Hodgekin · 2022-05-18T12:29:33+00:00

1) effort into physical attraction. Dieting, exercise and hygiene. 2) effort in intimacy. 3) knows how to negotiate and think rationally. 4) loyalty. 5) trust.

Goals: Be a faithful and loving wife. Be a loving mother.

Pre-game: Choose a proper husband that can also do all of the above. This requires you to be able to assess potential suitors.

It's not enough for him to be faithful to you. You have to be faithful to him, and you want to make it easier for yourself to feel satisfied in the relationship.

This means no promiscuous sex before marriage. Women have a hard time disociating a sexual encounter with desire. Men will have sex with anyone who's willing. This means men desire the body, not the person. You can tell this by how they treat the sexual encounter. You hook up and then they bounce.

A man who desires you as a person will offer commitment through relationship. This is how you tell a man desires you as a person, and not your body.

A women with a promiscuous history will believe every man she slept with in the past was a potential husband. And she will over inflate her ego thinking she's a desirable person. This is false. Her body is desirable, but her person is not. And a women's body has an expiration date. If she uses her body as a form of attaining validation from the opposite sex, she will suffer when she becomes old (looks start to decline in the 30s onwards.)

This is important for a long lasting relationship, because having your expectations grounded in reality will help you be satisfied in your current relationship. Most women who marry in the 30s tend to use the words "settled" with their husband. They did not settled. But they think they did because of their promiscuous past. This leaves the women with a bitter resentment in her marriage and more likely to leave the marriage when a better opportunity arise.

Last, don't believe in feminist ideology. Feminist ideology is about destroying the nuclear family. It entices young women with lies and causes them to lead destructive lives. A recent study came out examining the happiness of people. They found the least happy people were single women in their 40s without kids/husband. This is what feminist has created. Women who are independent, career driven, and don't need no man. Now they find themselves the most unhappy group of people in western countries.

agentscullysbf · 2022-04-01T21:04:29+00:00

is this true? i read a study stating that cohabitation divorce could be counteracted with certain alterations to caloric intake

2022-05-09T17:06:25+00:00

What about men? What about the men who do this? Are you gonna find any and post? Cause I pretty sure incels have a higher chance of never fucking a girl than us getting a divorce. Sorry I’m trying to find incel subs so I can tell them to kill themselves. If your reading this as an radical incel please die

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gilamonster69 · 2022-06-20T08:00:55+00:00

Hmmm

Title	Women who cohabited with someone besides their future husband were more than twice as likely to end up in divorce court.
Author	RSDevotion1
Upvotes	185
Comments	31
Date	March 29, 2022 12:12 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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