My wife, whom I’ve loved for years, despite her cheating, lying, etc. (“it was 20 years ago, get over it!”) finally pushed me to my breaking point. She came home from her make-work job, that I’ve never told her she “needs” to have, and that’s a whole side-convo, and accused me of being drunk during the day. not that I would begrudge anyone doing that in this situation, but I wasn’t.

I’d had it. I called a lawyer. Married 20+ years. What the hell do I do now?