Hello,

Married for two years, no children (We are in our thirties).

We've argued since the beginning. At first, I thought it was normal, but the problem is that once my wife gets angry, she sulks for a long time, and it becomes difficult to communicate. Even when I'm calm, I try to have a discussion to make things easier, but I end up crying and said "i am not support her", and I feel like I'm always the one making the effort.

For example, she might get a promotion in a month (to be confirmed). I haven't congratulated her yet because I'm waiting for it to be official. She cried, we argued, and she yelled at me. or another one she get mad when I talk every day with my mother or my family just for help or to know news (just maybe a call about 15 min per day).

These arguments are draining my energy to the point where I've stopped my entrepreneurial project because my mind is so focused on it.

I'm finding it hard to imagine the future.

We have a argument every week.

I quit her, the first days it like a liberation, I can breathe, but others weeks, I have sometimes some regret and sadness ... because I quit and I didn't give it another chance, even though she begged me to, because we had reached a point where—once you get to that stage—it’s essentially over. I didn't want to waste any more years, especially since we had already had serious talks and she hadn't changed—not until I actually left. I was too kind and patient

It's hard because, when I saw the old photos in vacation, and some good stuff I feel "I am bad to stop this relationship, all of a sudden !" But I spent months thinking about this, and I said to her "I preserve my mental and physical health, I can't " I had doubts about the relationship from the marriage.