I’ve posted on here a few times in the past few weeks. My STBXW has filed for divorce (she only told me less than 4 weeks ago that she no longer loved or wanted to be with me). We are still living under the same roof, things are amicable but can be strained at times. She has no money and is overdrawn with her bank, she says she wants no money from me as she needs to stand on her own two feet. Today we needed shopping, unfortunately my debit card needed replacing and I won’t have a new one until the coming week. I was going to put on credit card and pay off when card arrives. My wife was the one who knew the PIN number (as hardly use cc) but unfortunately when we got to checkout the pin was wrong. The only way to pay for groceries was for me to transfer money to her account, which I duly did. I’m the end I had to transfer nearly 2 x cost of shopping as she had gone beyond her o/d just to be able to pay. I said to her in the store that it doesn’t have to be like this and she responded by saying I’m not staying with you just for the money!! We left the store and she made me feel like shit. She has hardened into a person I do not know (been together for 15 years). I’m only trying to do what’s right and she says that all I do is go on. I’m so saddened by everything and she seems to not give a f—k!! Just don’t know what to do for the best!!