Parental Alienation is Illegal

kapriece · 2021-04-11T05:55:08+00:00

I just wanted to post this because I like many men are being deprived of our children. Search YouTube on the term. There are a few videos where custody is awarded to the father bc of it. As long as you do your part in trying to be a part of the children's lives you should be successful. This is an area where I've failed due to depression and my PTSD from being a soldier. It is not enough to pay support and since you are paying support, you deserve everything that comes with it. I hope this helps. Check you local and state laws.

Tragicinstinct · 2021-04-11T07:42:47+00:00

I’m in Southern California and feel every day that this escalates, my attorney does nothing and in turn feel like I can do nothing. This is after changing attorneys mid divorce.

Nubstix · 2021-04-11T15:55:24+00:00

this really should be higher. Great advice for a custody battle.

cloverlady04 · 2021-04-11T16:16:35+00:00

It is so unfortunate that some parents use their children as a weapon. Everyman out there who is being deprived of seeing their children is so very unfortunate. A good parent is suppose to be unselfish and wants the best for their child. Selfish parents hurt their kids by separating them. Parents have to stop using their kids as a vendetta. Having that bond broken sometimes causes fear of abandonment which has long time consequences. It is so very sad when the children are in the middle being used as tug of war. If you’re not an abuser of your kids in anyway you have every right to see your child/children. My situation is very different. When my children’s father left he said he wants nothing to do with the kids that he didn’t love them. Hasn’t reached out in two years nor offered financial assistance to the family. The kids are really nice, kind & living. I have two on the spectrum and one with physical restrictions. However they have expressed that when ever I left the house to visit parents or a sick friend he’d leave them alone as young as 4 & 6 yrs old. He would leave for hours and threaten them if they told me. He was psychologically abusive to them especially the oldest which I never knew. She didn’t show signs of being gaslighted. Also physically abusive, which he was sneaky about. I saw a welt from his hand on my daughters thigh when she was learning to use the toilet. Apparently she hadn’t gone fast enough . She was just 18 months and he denied it. I told him never put your hands on her again or he’d be removed. Obviously I was kidding myself because he got to em. The kids have been diagnosed with trauma, anxiety & depression. Honestly believed I was present and paying good attention. Also they usually went with me everywhere with me or stayed in their rooms. They tried not to speak to him because his reactions could be vicious. He was a present father but totally emotionally removed. I would be happy to share the children if he was a loving, thoughtful joyous dad that genuinely thought the kids were a wonderful part of his life, but that’s not the case. It would be really great if moms/dads would realize how lucky the kids are to have a parent that wants to give love, time and attention that’s what they have to be shown. That’s what they learn so they can be their best self growing and developing. I’m glad I did that for my kids. All the best to the Good Dads who want their kids in their lives. Parents who alienate the father out of selfishness should be ashamed.

WartimeDad · 2021-04-12T01:53:59+00:00

Really wish my attorney would conduct a deposition. Trying to see how far I can get taking the “civil” approach. After all, there is the entire future of coparenting ahead so sometimes it’s better to keep that relationship somewhat healthy.

Title	Parental Alienation is Illegal
Author	kapriece
Upvotes	20
Comments	9
Date	April 11, 2021 5:52 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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