TL;DR is basically the title. Warning: RANT incoming!

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I've lurked enough on dating, relationship advice, TRP, incel/MGTOW, and other "dating-oriented" subreddits to know that A lot of men misinterpret and magnify some women's insecurities in subreddits like r/whereareallthegoodmen. These are men who believe that there is some imaginary magical period in a woman's life where she begins asking "where are all the good men" when the reality of that subreddit is that they find and zero in on the most insecure women who haven't yet learned that THOUSANDS of men are one swipe away.

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The reality is that women are the prize. US. This is why men on those dating / relationship / breakup subreddits poo hoo hoo about the shitty response rate, NOT WOMEN. WOMEN don't complain about the response rate on OLD. Because our inboxes are crammed full of top tier responses. It's the reason why most divorces are initiated by women and not men. That's right. If men were the prize, they'd be leading the breakup and divorce rates but they're not. It's the MEN who are being ignored and dumped en masse, not the women.

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The very few women who are the victims of r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen simply haven't discovered this yet. Or are too insecure to believe it. They may be too inexperienced and new at dating because they swallowed too many red pills. The postings on there are of women who aren't presenting themselves in the best light. Some of them appear like straight up trolls. They're not representative of the dating world. They're not representative of all women or even most women. They're the outliers. The exceptions to the rule. It is NOT because there's a lack of good men out there, it's because these are the most insecure among us. In reality, it might take them a few weeks of swiping to find the one instead of a few hours. Because of their insecurities and how they present themselves on OLD. Ladies, we have GOT to get a grip on our insecurities. Go read the breakup subreddits. They're mostly MEN wanting their exes back, with few women in there.