Okay Ladies let me preface this with a short story so that you understand why I say this.

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Once I dated a Harvard Law Grad and was mesmerized by his potential. So much so that I ignored ALL the red flags. He dressed nice, had a solid circle of friends which he introduced me to quickly, and we talked for hours daily. So this is how it ended. He ghosted me after I had sex with him in my most vulnerable moment. Literally after telling him about a traumatic thing that happened to me. He was a fucking savage. Not only did I feel used, I felt robbed. He could have taken my pussy and ran but he took my personal history too. Never did I ever feel more defeated. I went crazy for a period after this, literally having panic attacks, anxiety attacks, and couldn't sleep for weeks.

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Of course he didn't cause all of this, but he pushed me over the ledge by ghosting me.

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I went through out entire text history to figure out why he ghosted me, and got nothing. But there was one text that particularly stood out that I read like 4x. He was saying something to the effect of planning to scam his landlord or something ( I thought he was joking) and he said veritas. I asked what does that mean he said "Trust, but first verify" And that was literally all I needed to know in that moment. I went along believing in my own perception instead of cross-verifying it with the reality of him which is why I allowed this to happen in the first place.

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Remember in life you are half responsible for the situations that meet you