Saving sex for marriage/ commitment isn’t a manipulation tactic. It’s a way to keep your mind clear while deciding if someone is right for you in the long term.

viper8472 · 2019-11-30T04:25:56+00:00

Maybe not until marriage, since sexuality is such an important part of marriage, but definitely waiting a certain period of time so you really get to know the person. People can be fake for a few weeks or a couple months. It is very difficult to be fake for several months. That gives you time to find out if he has a wife and three kids in another state.

pokinthecrazy · 2019-11-30T03:46:39+00:00

NO! IF you don’t drop your panties on the date, you’re just a manipulative bitch trying to take a guy for your $30 meal.

And if you do have sex then of course you’re not wife material.

So we just can’t win. Typical misogyny.

Montpellier33 · 2019-11-30T08:27:05+00:00

Plenty of women on reddit who waited until marriage to have sex wind up miserable. Everyone is welcome to choose their own risks, but I want to know a guy can throwdown before I even consider marrying him.

That doesn't mean I feel like I have to give him sex either. Of course he's not owed anything. But once I get to the point of trusting a guy and knowing I'm attracted and enjoy his company, that's something I want to experience.

2019-11-30T14:33:26+00:00

No way on Gods green earth am I marrying someone without knowing how good in bed they are. Men NEED to be vetted for sexual prowess, and sexual chemistry does exist.

driver_picks_music · 2019-11-30T09:02:21+00:00

Na... I want to have good sex. I enjoy it. I am not going to be without sex for 3 years ina relationship <— my personal min. probation period for a man, until I am certain he is & does right. This includes for me sexual compatibility

Not going to officially tie myself to him and then face a lifetime of disappointment :-/

Lalalalilyx · 2019-11-30T05:16:35+00:00

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