I’m in nyc, 27 well educated, financially stable asian female and from good family . Whenever I go on tinder and looking back at my past tinder dates it’s mostly 90% lvm. Personally, I really don’t want to date a guy who lives with roommates and makes less money than me. I workout, keep up my best looks( dress classy) but since I’m not from here it’s really hard to find a guy that fits my standards. But most of the times I go on tinder dates and later to find out that these guys live with roommates and earn less than me. Asking me to join cheap bar dates. I’m fine if they’re attractive but most of the times I regret even meeting them.

I had a date last night, face was cute and when we were heading out, I realized he’s like 5,8 and dress slobbishly. He sent me follow up text which I didn’t bother to reply. I joined Seeking arrangement but it’s not a dating site so it’s hard to find HVM for relationships, people suggest meetup groups but I went to language exchange to find flood of LVM guys who I wouldn’t bother talking to in real life. I really want to meet engineer or bankers who is attractive but pays for all my dates with maturity and no emotional baggage. Where can I meet those guys

I always wonder how all these Instagram models (whether real models or just insta models ) find HVM boyfriends. Wondering if I should go to MBA to find my future HVM husband and for my career advancement.