I spent the last few days reflecting on 2020, and was being a ’negative Nancy’ and talking about all the terrible things happening throughout the year such as the pandemic, massive job losses, devastating forest fires, mass protests around the world, and a lot of other terrible stuff.

But, I stopped myself from negating all the positive things that happened this year!

  • I visited NYC for the first time before pandemic shut down the world (have been through NYC to connect to Europe, first time I stopped in the city!)
  • Got myself a pair of really nice boots
  • Found out the truth about NV narc ex, he was a liar and manipulator so knowing the truth about him was so liberating and freeing!
  • Removed toxic grad school advisor from my research group
  • Dropped a LV therapist and started trusting myself again
  • Got a promotion and massive raise from work
  • Blocked and deleted LV pick me friends
  • Bought a super cool watch
  • Bought my first condo
  • Last but not least: found FDS and allowed myself to be proud of who I am and not feel ashamed about my past any longer!

Happy New Years and I hope 2021 is going to just as amazing if not more amazing! 🤩