There's a reason women get brainwashed and sucked into pickme culture and obsessions with youth, beauty, and dieting so easily. Society teaches us that the epitome of value for a woman is to be an 18 year old (if we're lucky) beauty in a size 2. Just look at ads, Instagram, Tiktok, Hollywood. They are plastered with tiny beautiful girls. Society also programs us to chase the ultimate goal of bagging a "prince charming" who will magically solve all our problems and love us like they do in the movies. These goals delusional obsessions keep our energy focused on futile pursuits instead of on financial, academic, and societal goals. Goals that, if pursued en mass, will change us and society as a whole.

Here in FDS we talk a lot about these things. We break down and analyze the reasons why being a pickme is detrimental to your health, how to deal with (read: avoid) LVM, and so many more important issues surrounding womanhood. But these specific tips are not what makes FDS so powerful.

The reason why mass brainwashing has continued to be so effective in holding back women is that one of the core tenets is that other women are competition. Through this belief and the wasting of our energy we are kept separate and weak. Women find it hard to bond together in a sane environment simply because they are hard to find by design.

We need FDS because it finally gives us a platform to bond with women in our sanity, in our oppression, in having been used and abused. I have felt like I was living in an insane asylum for most of my life because of being entrenched in misogyny and pickme culture. Just opening my phone to FDS is a huge breath of fresh air. That's why I keep coming back, but it's not just beneficial on a personal level.

FDS is powerful because of the nearly 150 THOUSAND women banding together to finally tell society off. To say, loudly, you can't gaslight us or use us anymore. We have each other's backs and across the globe are helping women get out of abusive relationships, shitty situations, and helping each other make better financial and personal choices. No wonder the scrotes are so mad.

Every day this community is growing and this is the true power of FDS. If most of the women in the world were FDS women, it would be a beautiful place. For women and men alike. Sometimes I fantasize about this utopia, but until then I'm ecstatic to be here with you ladies every day.

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