So I have realized something

Anytime I date "down" the guy ends up being a total asshole. He ends up ghosting, dumping me, or being rude and disrespectful after getting what they want.

Backstory: I (33/f) met this guy (26/m) who was an ex-model.

His life is a mess.

- lives at home with mom

- addicted to weed

-not many friends

-drives uber

-has premature ejac problems

-dresses dirty and low effort

-follows tons of thots

- low effort / barely initiated texts / called himself "passive"

This guy used me for sex and then when he tried to break up with me after I asked by he follows so many ig thots said it was because "we are incompatible" and that i am "controlling." LOL.